A Journey Begins ... Learning to Sew

Ever Sew Slowly (Rose)

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The COVID-19 pandemic led to a period of uncertainty, disruption and reflection. It was a stressful time for everyone and more so for frontline workers. Many who were temporarily out of a job or for their first time working from home found themselves with more time on their hands. Trying out new things was a way to move forward and gain a sense of agency during COVID. One of those things for me was learning how to sew. (I also became very interested in birds šŸ˜ŗ).

I had never really been interested in fashion. I hated shopping for new clothes. Trying on dresses for birthday parties, graduations and other events only led to frustration as I never liked how I looked or felt. If I found something I liked, the article of clothing most of the time didnā€™t have a good fit; maybe the sleeves were too long, shoulders too wide or bust was too tight or loose. And when I found something that fit, the item was usually ā€œinā€ or ā€œtrendyā€. Pride in my uniqueness, individuality and self expression took a toll.

Altering and creating my own clothes was never something I thought I would have the ability and time to do, but made a lot of sense for it to become an outlet for me during Covid. A special occasion had been recently scheduled within a year. I thought “why donā€™t I learn to sew, make a dress from scratch, Iā€™ll have one year to make it, right?”. Long story short, I had so much fun learning about how to make my own moulage from Suzy Furrer’s course Patternmaking Basics: The Bodice Sloper on Craftsy. I got sidetracked on making my own dress form using what I learned from the moulage course. I didnā€™t have time to finish the dress.

First time understitching My dress form

Strangely enough, I wasnā€™t stressed about not finishing the dress in time for the event that at the time was just one month away. I had visited my local thrift store, Life Boutique Thrift, and found the perfect back-up. The dress was the just the right color and style for the special occasion I had coming up. However, it was too big in certain areas and could use some alterations to make it more modern and fun. Instead of buying a new dress, I decided to take on the challenge of fitting it myself.

I borrowed my momā€™s old Singer 30215 sewing machine and with the supplies Iā€™ve slowly been purchasing, I tailored the dress to fit me perfectly and I felt proud of myself. Learning how to sew at first was a crazy dream, but so grateful I took the effort to pursue it.

The event came and went, and I likely won’t wear the dress again, but the experience of learning a new skill and being able to create something with my own hands was priceless. I look forward to going on more sewing adventures and expanding my skills even further.

Photo of me at the event wearing the altered dress Photo of me at the event wearing the altered dress